discover possibilities

do you feel stuck in life

Like each day feels just like the one before, hoping tomorrow will bring something different or new?

Are you going through a big or recent change, such as a breakup, loss of a loved one or a major life transition, leaving you feeling lost or disconnected?

Have you recently partaken in a psychedelic experience, wanting to make meaning of the awareness gained and identify ways to integrate the positive takeaways into your daily life?

Maybe you are an athlete or a creative who is struggling with a performance slump or creative block, wanting to rediscover the flow state once again.

THE RIGHT TIME IS NOW.

LIVE THE LIFE YOU WANT TO LIVE AND BECOME THE PERSON YOU WANT TO BE.

I'm Kevin

I can help you…
Identify the roots of your distress.
Heal the core wounds that present as anxiety, depression, stress or trauma.
Develop the tools that will allow you to flourish and thrive.

Our sorrows and wounds are Healed only when
we touch them with Compassion.

- Buddha

THE DECISION TO SEEK THERAPY IS NOT EASY

It means the fact that we are struggling in some facet of our life and need help. As a licensed marriage and family therapist, I help clients identify and heal the roots of their problem. Though there is no quick fix to healing, brain-based therapeutic modalities, which tap into the bodies innate ability to heal, appear to resolve emotional and physical distress more rapidly than traditional or "talk therapy".

Brainspotting and EMDR are powerful and highly effective modalities in treating and relieving

Therapy Provides a Safe Space to Look Inside Ourselves,
To Be Honest with Who We Are and What We Want

It is a space to heal deep wounds, identify what is holding you back from living a joyous life, and expanding upon the strengths you have, allowing you to flourish in both relationships and career. When we don’t live as our true selves, stress, anxiety and depression soon take hold. The pressure to maintain an appearance that everything is alright, but knowing on the inside that it is not can be debilitating. This not only negatively impacts our mental health, but our overall wellbeing.

OFFERING MENTAL HEALTH SERVICES TO CLIENTS IN

California Florida

BRAINSPOTTING

Brainspotting is a brain-based therapeutic approach to healing. Attuning to both the therapeutic relationship and the brain-body response of the client allows the therapist to provide a supportive framework for the client to tap into their “inner healing intelligence”, or the body’s ability to heal itself. Whether you are struggling with anxiety, depression, stress, or trauma, this gentle and flexible modality is a highly effective treatment to finding the peace and joy in life that you deserve. Many clients have experienced deep and rapid processing with this cutting-edge modality in comparison to traditional “talk therapy”.

EMDR THERAPY

There is more wisdom in your body than the deepest philosophy…

EMDR Therapy (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing), is a highly affective therapeutic modality for unblocking stuck memories that inhibit healing and growth. Often, our traumas are rooted in early childhood relationships that effect how we relate to ourselves and others. These attachment wounds result in core negative self beliefs, such as feeling unloveable, unsafe or not good enough to name a few.

PSYCHEDELIC INTEGRATION THERAPY

Psychedelic medicines can open the door to healing.
It’s up to you to walk through it.

What is Psychedelic Integration Therapy?
After a psychedelic journey, it can be difficult for many people to make sense of their experience, whether it be magical, healing, or one of confusion, and integrate it into their daily lives.

Psychedelic Integration Therapy is a critical piece of the healing journey that is far too often overlooked or ignored. Gaining awareness without moving it into action or change, is merely awareness that quickly submerges back into the subconscious mind. Without integrating the experience into one’s daily life, old habits will soon take hold, finding oneself dealing with the same unresolved issues. For this reason, many users find themselves participating in more psychedelic journeys than might be needed to ultimately heal unresolved issues and thrive in their lives.

Performance Enhancement

rediscover your FLOW STATE

Find the Love and Joy Again

What is Performance Enhancement?
Many athletes and creatives experience a slump or block at some point in their career. This can be scary, especially for professionals who rely on their talent or skill for their job. The worry and stress of not performing to your ability only feeds the negative self beliefs and exacerbates the problem. This often results in athletes struggling with the “Yips” or creatives experiencing performance anxiety or blocks losing the love for the profession that once brought them so much joy.

How do EMDR and Brainspotting work for creatives such as musicians, writers, actors, artists and athletes?
• Help identify and heal underlying cause of your distress
• Learn to regulate your nervous system, allowing you to operate in the state of coherence or harmony between your brain and body.
• Tap into the times when you experienced flow, identifying the ingredients that not only contribute to the state but allow you to return to it. 

PSYCHOTHERAPY

Psychotherapy, or talk-therapy, is what most people imagine when hearing the term therapy. Built upon trust and compassion, the relationship between therapist and client encourages the expression of innermost thoughts and feelings. Client’s are able to gain insight and awareness, allowing them to discover solutions to the issue(s) that is getting in the way of living a joyful life.

About Kevin

My approach to therapy draws upon my belief that individuals need to be viewed and treated holistically, addressing mental, physical and nutritional influences that impact overall wellbeing. Simply alleviating the negative symptoms is not enough. I want you to live an optimal and self-fulfilled life. A life where your strengths are both discovered and promoted, allowing for the seeds of happiness and wellbeing to take hold and grow.

Live the life you want to live
Today is the day where you begin to

heal and thrive

Connect

Please feel free to reach out with any questions regarding therapy with me. I will respond within 24 hours during weekdays.

OFFICE LOCATION:

California
169 Pier Ave. Suite 2
Santa Monica, CA 90405
P: +310 720-4822
E: kevin@kevinstolper.com

* Metered parking is readily available in the lot on Kinney St.

Florida
State of Florida via telehealth.

CONTACT INFO:

OFFICE POLICY:

Clients are asked to cancel no later than 24 hours prior to their scheduled appointment time. A no show or cancellation less than 24 hours will result in a charge of the full session fee.


SESSION FEE:

Sessions are 50-minutes long and range from $150-$225. Sliding scale spots are offered on a limited availability. Payment can be made in cash, credit card, check, or Zelle.

 

INSURANCE INFO:

I do not accept insurance but am happy to provide a “Superbill” in which you submit to your carrier for reimbursement.